Sex toys are an easy way to elevate your sex life. Sex is also one way for a couple to become much closer by sharing incredibly intimate moments. By combining those two ideas we can say that couples that use xxx toys during sex can become closer by making their sex better. There are a few ways that we can examine this idea. There are plenty of statistics gathered from surveys that point to toys for lovers improving sex between couples. There is also evidence that using sex toys for couples can help people with mild sexual dysfunctions enjoy sex. In addition marital aids improve sex simply by adding more excitement to it – as you can imagine adding stimuli would. You don't have to pine for a huge dick anymore. By taking another step into that line of thinking we can then explore the different ways that different types of adult products will spice things up. Let's do some quick and sexy math. By adding up all these different factors we can easily see that every couple should at least try adding sex toys into their love life.
Sex Toy Stats
By looking at survey results we can see that while there are plenty of couples that have used sex toys during sex, there are even more people that are open to the idea. 41% of couples have reported using sex toys to ramp themselves up during foreplay. While, 37% of couples have reported using them during actual sex. These numbers are impressive, but significantly lower compared the number of people that are willing to use them. 76% of women have stated that they want to use sex toys with their partners and 89% of men want to use sex toys in a relationship. The men who have actually used toys for men during sex or foreplay have come back and said that the vibrations from those sex toys increase their sexual desire. Those vibrations also improve their erectile, orgasmic, and sexual functions. One study done at an Indiana University shows that women who generally use a vibrator feel more sexual arousal and have orgasms more frequently(1). These results tell us that more people want to fuck around with sex toys than actually are and that sex toys improve sex. But, there are more results to paint our picture with.
Many people might feel embarrassed by proposing the idea of using a toy during sex. That's probably why the number of people who have tried is smaller than the number of people willing to try it. However, the numbers tell us that there's no need to feel ashamed or embarrassed. Most people want to try sex toys during sex. I promise you that plenty of the people that you've had sex with are using toys during masturbation. 20% of men have reported to have used vibrators on themselves. 44% of women have used sex toys between the ages of 18 to 60. In addition to that, 12% of women use sex toys to masturbate at least once a week. Even though so many people are using sex toys 50% of women don't start until well intos in their twenties(2). The use of sex toys to get frequent, easy, and powerful orgasms also impacts people on a psychological level. The women that masturbate regularly have higher scores on the self-esteem index. Women who use sex toys – whether during sex or masturbation – tend to get more sexual satisfaction and have more orgasms during sex with their partner(3). Taking all of this into account it seems like a no-brainer to try sex toys during sex. There's also no reason to feel embarrassed about bringing it up to your partner because they're probably open to the idea. Another benefit of sex toys to take into account is that they'll likely help with certain sexual dysfunctions.
How Sex Toys Can Help
Sex isn't easy for everyone. For reasons, whether physical or psychological, some people have a difficult time enjoying sex or achieving orgasms. Quite often sex toys are able to help people with these dysfunctions. There is a condition that some women are afflicted with called anorgasmia. Women with anorgasmia are unable to cum despite how much attention their partners give them during sex. In many cases these women are able to cum once they use the intense stimulation of sex toys. This also applies to sex with their partner. That being the case, women with anorgasmia could begin experiencing orgasms with their partners thanks to the aid of sex toys. However, sex toys can also help guys out. It is fairly common for men to have erectile dysfunction. Men with erectile dysfunction can still orgasm without getting hard – especially with the help of a sex toy(4). These medical conditions can easily be worked around by using sex toys. However, more mundane sexual problems can also be dealt with.
For whatever reason it is fairly common for one partner not to enjoy sex. Sex toys are an easy solution to that problem. Some women have trouble cumming from vaginal stimulation. That can be solved by using a sex toy to stimulate the clit during sex. Either sexual partner can be made to cum faster or easier with an orgasm. So, if time does not permit an extended period of love making. Sex toys could immediately solve that problem by intensely stimulating both partners. Not to mention that when the vagina is stimulated with a toy it becomes tighter. The man could gain extra stimulation by having the woman stimulate the clitoris. By using a vibrator the entire vagina will slightly buzz, thereby stimulating the penis even more than usual(5). Even if you don't have any sexual dysfunctions or issues sex toys can be used to elevate your fuck fest.
Toys During Sex
Never underestimate what a sex toy could do for you and your sexual partner. Toys could bring your enjoyment of sex to the next level, starting with what starts every sex session. It all starts with foreplay so why not make the most out of it? Trying out new sex toys during foreplay emphasizes the importance of it. You will probably extend your foreplay by using novel new toys to explore each others bodies. This longer foreplay will lead into a longer and more passionate session of sex. Which will probably lead to more orgasms. Not only will you be able to enjoy sex more by making it longer, but you can also learn something new about your bodies. By using toys to explore yourself and your partner you could discover a new way to cum that never occurred to you before(6). Imagine that instead of just grinding on each other before you fuck you and your partner intensely stimulate one another in order to start fucking. You could easily both be using bullet vibrators that strap to your fingers to stimulate both the pussy and the cock. You could also incorporate flavored lube to spice up oral sex before the actual fucking. Of course, that's not to mention adding brand new stimuli to your actual sex life.
Plenty of people experiment during sex. An easy way to experiment is by bringing in toys into your sex life. By doing so you automatically add a certain level of novelty to sex that may have lost – why let yourself become a jaded pro? If your sex has become tedious then the solution is easy – make it fun. Any sex toy can create new sensations during fucking that you haven't felt before, like vibrations for instance. A small vibrator is an easy addition to anyone's boudoir. Such a toy can be used on either the man or the woman. During a standard fucking you could use the vibrator to tease the clit. This would not only make the woman cum faster and more frequently, but the man would also feel those vibrations deep within the pussy. If you wanted to focus more on the penis this time around you could also plant that vibrator on the balls or the base of the shaft for extra stimulation of the cock. Leading to a quick and massive eruption of jizz. However there are more options out there for you. While a vibrating cock ring is in the same family as the vibrator it will elevate your love life in different ways. One of the more convenient things about this toy is that it is hands free, unlike a vibrator. During sex a vibrating cock ring is going to stimulate both partners. Not only will the base of the man's cock be humming away nicely, but with each deep thrust of the hips the stimulation will be rubbing off on the vagina. As an added bonus, providing the ring is tight enough, even though the cock is being shaken to and fro blood flow is restricted within the penis. Making the man last longer in bed. While vibration is one option another is to restrict movement. Find yourself some adjustable wrist straps, these don't even have to be explicitly sex toys. Just look for some soft and stretchy bands that can fit over your partners wrist/ankles. Simply by restricting your partners ability to move with you, or writhe during sex, will add another layer to it. You can anchor their limbs to the bed or hogtie them, either way your partner automatically becomes submissive and will experience sex from a different perspective(7). Of course there are many options that you can choose between to give your sex life a nitro boost.
Whenever any couple wants to reinvigorate their sexual escapades sex toys should be one of the first things they think of. They aren't difficult to find, they're easy to use, and they provide quick effortless orgasms for both people. You could easily incorporate vibrators into your sex, or simply into the foreplay. However, you could also give butt plugs a spin. Either partner could use a butt plug, or both could, to give themselves additional stimulation during sex. It simply adds another level to sex by stretching and pressing against the bundle of nerves known as the ass hole – all while engaged in your favorite sex position. If you're feeling even more adventurous add a strap on dildo into the mix. It could be refreshing for sex partners to swap roles and try being dominant or submissive. A strap on can benefit the woman by putting her firmly in the drivers seat while she tops that fine ass. The man gets a benefit by exploring a new erogenous zone and having his prostate rammed by a neon colored dick. If you're a couple that's a little more banal than pegging then why not try out a remote controlled vibrator. Imagine this scenario, you are giving up all control to your partner and they can choose whether or not to end the stimulation or when they will jump in to give you even more(8). Of course there are more options out there in the wild world of toys and some will suit you better than others. But boy, these sure sound fun.
Every couple out there should use sex toys during sex at least once. They amplify sex to another level and flip stale moves on their head by adding another level of novelty. If you're thinking about it then chances are your partner already wants to but is too shy to ask. Take a look at the stats. Not only can toys reinvigorate your desire for sex but they might be the solutions to simple sexual issues. These issues might be anorgasmia or the need for more than vaginal stimulation. Toys can even be used as a work around for erectile dysfunction. If you need more excitement and stimulation then sex toys are one of the easier solutions waiting for you. There are so many toys to choose from out there and so many ways to use those toys. Go find your new level of euphoria and satisfaction.
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